There are many reasons why people get into the martial arts and one of the main ones is self defense. Whether it is a young woman being afraid of being attacked or a man feeling insecure about his ability to protect his family from danger martial arts sometimes holds the key to security for many people.
When you go back to the roots of martial arts you will find the the sole purpose was to be able to save your own life while probably taking the life of your opponent. It was life and death sometimes on a daily basis on the battlefield and whatever techniques worked were added to the others that kept warriors alive!
These techniques then became the foundation of the different types of martial arts that are found in all parts of the world across the ages. Whether it was the Spartans in ancient Greece, the Shaolin monks in China, the Japanese samurai or the warriors of the early Koreans the concept is the same, survival. Some of the older martial arts are still in existence which is a true testament to their effectiveness and longevity.
So fast forward to the present and the quest or desire to be able to protect yourself against all types of attacks or attackers is still very much the goal of many people besides the military or police personal. Unfortunately the expectations of most people are unrealistic to say the least.
The ability to thwart a serious attack especially one that is unexpected is one of the most difficult things to successfully accomplish. Many a high ranking martial artist has found out the hard way that all his training was useless when the adrenaline kicked in and panic took over. Some have even been seriously injured or killed over the years which highlights the serious nature of self defense.
If a experienced martial artist with years of experience can get himself or herself killed then what are the odds that a novice has in defending himself or herself? A very interesting question with wide ranging ramifications!
I would strongly recommend the book “Meditations in Violence” which has very powerful insights on violence, its effects on people with an eye towards the martial arts and the training that is required to deal with it. Excellent Reading!
So many people from all walks of life enter a martial arts school expecting to learn the secret techniques of self defense and all in ten lessons or less. What a ridiculous concept but an understandable one. With all the movies and special effects it is very easy to see how an inexperienced person can be fooled into thinking that there’s nothing to it.
One quick strike, a well placed kick and a throw over the shoulder and the attacker is left helpless on the ground. Good luck because you will need a lot of it if you find yourself facing a determined attacker or street fighter. This is no joke and anything less than a all out counter attack may be your only hope. Running is the first option that you should employ so a program of running regularly may be the best first line of defense.
If a person is honest with themselves they will realize that ten lessons will not really help them defend themselves and will dedicate more time & energy to truly learning a martial art that may give them the best chance at surviving an attack. But there are no guarantees that come with your lessons and this is a very real thing to consider because one day your life may depend on it.
A classic scene was in the movie “The Outlaw Josie Wales” when the group he was with was being attacked by Native American warriors and his words were to the effect that in order to survive they must resort to all out savagery with no hold barred in order to get out alive!
Other types of people that take up martial arts for self defense will find it too hard, too demanding, too violent and drop any and all desire to continue. This is very commonplace and after a while you will know which people will stay to train in the dojo and which people will drop out after a very short period of time.
The worse case scenario is the person who takes the ten lessons and then actually deludes themselves into thinking that they are now a lean, mean fighting machine ready to take on all attackers. This is a very dangerous state of delusion to be in.
Now here is something to think about! Most martial artists will never get into a fight for their entire lives and will never be attacked. I believe the reason for this is twofold. One, the awareness that you get from your martial arts training keeps you out of harm’s way and the aurora of confidence that you project unconsciously actually prevents attacks from occurring because you are not looked upon as a potential victim.
The wolf or lion does not attack the strongest animals but singles out the weak or injured animals to kill and eat. How do they know from a distance which is the strongest and which is the weakest? There are no obvious signs but yet they are able to tell and act upon their perception with obvious results.
The human predator also singles out the weak and their next potential victim by using a similar type of internal profiling system that picks up on certain movements or cues. This is their business and they are very good at it and also get off on the fear they create.
The experienced martial artist does not appear as a weak person or potential victim which prevents many attacks from even being considered in the first place by the human predator. They would rather go after an easy victim than a potentially dangerous individual that could possibly cause them physical damage. This self defense mechanism comes about naturally through years of training & conditioning your mind and body.
From what I have seen even though I have not taken the martial art myself, Krav Magva seems to be a very good self defense martial art that is direct and dynamic. It does not require special uniforms, bowing or any type of classical martial art etiquette but does require a lot of physical contact. So be prepared for bruises, aches, pains and other injuries that are associated with a contact martial art that does not pull too many punches.
Most good self defense courses will be hopefully realistic with hard strikes, kicks to knees, gouging, elbows flying and take downs with finishing techniques. Some will have the padded person who absorbs the punishment protected by layers of foam and other protective material so that the student can actually feel the effect of his counter attack which provides excellent feedback.
Self defense serves to empower people to not be victims and the martial arts can be the conduit to their growth in confidence and overall awareness. This certainly does not mean that the concept of self defense is to be used as an offensive weapon consisting only of kicks or strikes but of also recognizing dangerous situations and avoiding them if possible.
Screaming, creating a commotion and running are also excellent tools in your self defense arsenal which should be included in any course that is taught by a certified instructor. Unfortunately just because the martial arts instructor is quite qualified in his or her particular martial art does not mean that they are the best self defense teachers available. There is no difference whether you are being taught self defense by a woman or a man in terms of techniques but some women may be more comfortable being taught by another female.
When you sign up for the self defense course make sure you give it the time it requires because if you are not used to physical contact in the context of defending yourself it may be very scary and frightening. It’s better to feel these emotions in a controlled environment and learn how to deal with them than being in a real situation that is totally uncontrolled & unscripted.
Repetition is very important to develop muscle memory and hundreds if not thousands of strikes, kicks, gouges, etc should be practiced in the class and if possible at home. Another thing that should be taken into consideration is that niceness and politeness goes right out the window when you are being threatened or attacked!
Eye pokes, throat strikes, ear compression strikes are all fair targets when your life is on the line. A Jujitsu instructor that was teaching at a dojo that I visited many years ago gave his students this pearl of wisdom ” I would rather be judged by 12 of my peers than be carried by 6″ This is a very powerful statement which will have it’s critics in the liberal end of the spectrum and probably in the legal & law enforcement fields.
Something to consider is that there is a strong possibility that if you have a black belt and you successfully defend yourself but the assailant is injured or killed you will find yourself being prosecuted to the full extent of the law. It is advisable that you research the laws of the state that you reside in that pertain to self defense.
This bias towards black belts might be the result of the Hollywood illusion that has been created to give the impression that a high ranking martial artist can easily disarm or incapacitate an attacker without causing any serious injury to him. Absolutely ridiculous!
Unless the attacker is dead drunk and can’t even stand up any attack and the defense you mount has the inherent risk of serious injury to either party. Now the intellects that formulate these self defense laws may actually believe that a martial artist can subdue an attacker regardless of the circumstances such as the attacker being just plain crazy, has drug fueled aggression or is a real angry person that wants to lash out at anybody that crosses their path.
It’s not going to happen according to the Hollywood script or to the dojo script. Many martial arts instructors are also guilty of this illusion or delusion which may be a more accurate description. Many an experienced martial arts instructor that I have encountered have advocated certain techniques that were guaranteed to subdue anybody or any type of attacker.
To prove their point they demonstrated the various techniques on a compliant student under controlled conditions. 100% of the time they were able to prove their point showing that it indeed worked as indicated. What a surprise!
The sad part is that many of the students will believe this to be true and this belief could cost them their life. Many of the martial arts instructors teaching have never been in a real fight and have not used any of the self defense techniques to successfully defend themselves. Thus the techniques have been untested and therefore unreliable in the true sense of self defense.
An example of this type of myth is that if you strike an attackers nose upwards with your palm it will drive the bone into the brain and kill the person immediately. This is not true but there are books and DVDs that still illustrate this as a real deadly technique that should not be used unless your life is on the line.
So it is very easy to see how an experienced martial arts instructor can be fooled into thinking that this or that particular technique will work when the chips are down. Since an instructor is usually taught by an instructor it stands to reason that a myth can keep going for many generations especially if there is no critical thinking and trial & error applied to each of the self defense techniques.
An example of what won’t work is the concept that a restraining technique such as a twisted arm or some other type of lock will not work on a determined, crazy adrenaline filled individual. Pain will not be felt in the normal fashion and trying to control such an individual usually requires many bodies on top. But the myth still pervades many jujitsu schools that an arm lock , wrist twist or shoulder lock will be able to control an out of control individual.
Hopefully you will never be in the situation that finds you facing an abnormal attacker and/or street fighter that is enraged and possibly fueled by drugs, alcohol or by both. Your best bet is to run very fast from this type of person to live another day. It may sound pessimistic but I have seen people fight four or five people and it took that many to subdue him! Something to think about.
A strike to the throat or the eyes will cause damage and rank up there as very effective self defense techniques while also being very dangerous. Its hard to control such strikes and the potential for permanently disabling the attacker is very high. Also body type, size, weight and strength all come into play when utilizing self defense techniques so it is true that one technique does not fit all situations.
I would recommend that you read Bruce Tegners books on self defense, pressure points and other great reference books. I really feel he was an overlooked pioneer in the martial arts way back in the 1960′s. It will be well worth it to include his books into your martial arts library which you should have already started adding to.
Remember that awareness is your first and most powerful defense tool. I pad earphones in your ear do little to help you listen for danger such as footsteps behind you and being distracted while texting does not allow you to be aware of anything except the little letters on the screen. Use common sense first & foremost.
Find a qualified self defense school and instructor to teach you the basics and maybe this will spark a desire to learn more and maybe even become a dedicated martial artist.